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Laurence “Larry” William Rilinger
Goff, Kansas
08/09/1941 - 04/26/2024
Laurence “Larry” William Rilinger, 82 of Goff, died peacefully on April 26, 2024, at Crestview Nursing and residential Living in Seneca with his family by his side.
Laurence was born August 9, 1941, to William Andrew Rilinger and Rose Catherine Schmidt Rilinger. He was the second of five children including Nadine (George) Mergenmeier, Peggy (Verness) Heinen, Kathleen (Neal) Douglas and Tom (Diane) Rilinger. Growing up on the family farm west of Goff, Larry learned many skills that served him well all his life. However, his sisters liked to tease that Larry would purposely work late in the fields to avoid helping with the milking chores. Larry’s work ethic was evident early when as a teenager, he would ride his bike several miles to work in the Corning Grocery Store.
Larry graduated from Corning High School and then took work with a traveling crew who assembled metal buildings throughout the Midwest. Larry’s mechanical mind that easily understood how things worked and went together was first put to use fixing up old jalopy cars for racing and then again during his1963-69 military years. Larry was in the 137th Infantry Regiment, serving in the 69th Brigade and 5th Infantry Division. During this time, he started work as a mechanic at White Way Chevrolet in Goff, KS. This job had great benefits as it led to meeting Nancy Elaine Fund who would become his wife February 20, 1965, they were married at St. Patrick’s church in Corning. Larry and Nancy were blessed with six daughters: Joyce (Darin) Porter of Holton, KS, Jamie (Tom) Logan of Lee’s Summit, MO, Jonie (Andy) James of McPherson, KS, Judy (Jim) Cannon of Overland Park, KS, Jenice (Brian) Williams of Great Bend, KS, and Jill (Jeremy) Vickers of Lee’s Summit, MO. People would tease Larry about not having any sons, but Larry always replied he wouldn’t trade his girls for any boys!
Larry worked in the assembly line at General Motors in Kansas City and even commuted there when he and Nancy first established the Rilinger Dairy Farm. Between keeping dairy hours and commuting, Larry knew the value of a good cup of coffee. He worked closer to home when he changed jobs to mechanic at Henry Brothers Implement Company in Holton and later worked for himself at Larry’s Repair Shop at their dairy farm east of Goff. In his later years, Larry added Relief Rural Mail Carrier to his resume, carrying mail on routes throughout Goff and Corning.
Making a small family farm run well was hard work. Through 59 years of marriage, Larry and Nancy learned how to balance working with their spouse 24/7 while relying on each other’s strengths and abilities. While both cared for their dairy and beef herds, Nancy kept the books and Larry kept the old tractors and equipment running – and still made it to almost every sporting event or activity in which their girls were involved. Larry knew the art of catching a 15-minute nap wherever he could and would jump up ready for whatever was next. Larry also knew the best way to end the day was with a bowl of Schwan’s ice cream.
Larry and Nancy were blessed with seventeen grandchildren: Dan (Alley) Porter, Katie (Mitchell) Henry, Lori James, Megan (Mike) McGrew, Kelsey (Brandon) Litch, Rachel (Erik) Vizcaino, Nathan (Josie) James, Ben (Chikayo) Logan, Kaylee (Kyler) Suhr, Olivia (Alex) Brown, Becca Cannon, Natalie Williams, Regan Cannon, Ailey Williams, Johnathan Vickers, Josiah Vickers, and Juliana Vickers. This side of heaven, Larry got to enjoy his first 10 great-grandchildren: Leighton, Everly, Isla and Avery Henry, June and Fitzgerald Porter, Waylon and Kylie McGrew, Kacey Suhr, and Callie Litch. All the grandkids knew that a trip the farm meant a buggy ride with Grandpa Larry to check the cows and if you were lucky, one of Grandma Nancy’s cinnamon rolls when you returned. Larry and Nancy made it a priority to visit their children and catch as many of the grandkids’ activities as possible. Larry’s vehicles were always well-stocked with a stash of cherry mash and peanut clusters for a last-minute trip to visit family.
Larry was a member of St James Catholic Church, the Knights of Columbus, the American Legion, and a Harrison Township Trustee. Larry lived in Crestview Nursing Home these last five years. He was a loved favorite there, despite his orneriness. Larry passed peacefully April 26, 2024.
Larry will be remembered fondly as a steadfast provider, helpful neighbor, and hard worker. He enjoyed dancing in the milk barn and bringing home a flower bouquet or two to Nancy. Larry loved to hold babies and could easily entertain them with his dancing eyebrows. Larry’s commitment to attending church and living out his beliefs in his daily life helped to plant the seeds of faith in his daughters and grandchildren. That is the best crop worth growing! Larry is a loved husband, dad, and grandpa and will be greatly missed.
Larry will lie in state at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 from 8AM-2PM. The family visitation will be from 5:30 PM-8 PM, with rosary being prayed at 7 PM, on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 at the St. James Catholic Church in Wetmore. The Mass of Christian Burial will be at St. James Catholic Church in Wetmore at 10 AM on Wednesday, May 1, 2024. The burial will be in the Fairview Cemetery at Goff, Kansas.
Memorials may be left in Larry’s memory to St. James Catholic Church and /or to a Staff Support Fund at Crestview.
For those attending services in Wetmore traveling from 75 Highway, Highway 9 is open to Wetmore, it is closed west of Wetmore. For those traveling from the west, the Sabetha-Wetmore Road from Highway 36 is the best route of travel. If you have any questions or concerns on how to get to Wetmore, please call Lauer Funeral Home at 785-336-2101.
Larry will lie in state at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 from 8AM-2PM. The family visitation will be from 5:30 PM-8 PM, with rosary being prayed at 7 PM, on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 at the St. James Catholic Church in Wetmore. The Mass of Christian Burial will be at St. James Catholic Church in Wetmore at 10 AM on Wednesday, May 1, 2024. The burial will be in the Fairview Cemetery at Goff, Kansas.
Memorials may be left in Larry’s memory to St. James Catholic Church and /or to a Staff Support Fund at Crestview.
For those attending services in Wetmore traveling from 75 Highway, Highway 9 is open to Wetmore, it is closed west of Wetmore. For those traveling from the west, the Sabetha-Wetmore Road from Highway 36 is the best route of travel. If you have any questions or concerns on how to get to Wetmore, please call Lauer Funeral Home at 785-336-2101.
Larry will lie in state at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 from 8AM-2PM. The family visitation will be from 5:30 PM-8 PM, with rosary being prayed at 7 PM, on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 at the St. James Catholic Church in Wetmore. The Mass of Christian Burial will be at St. James Catholic Church in Wetmore at 10 AM on Wednesday, May 1, 2024. The burial will be in the Fairview Cemetery at Goff, Kansas.
Memorials may be left in Larry’s memory to St. James Catholic Church and /or to a Staff Support Fund at Crestview.
For those attending services in Wetmore traveling from 75 Highway, Highway 9 is open to Wetmore, it is closed west of Wetmore. For those traveling from the west, the Sabetha-Wetmore Road from Highway 36 is the best route of travel. If you have any questions or concerns on how to get to Wetmore, please call Lauer Funeral Home at 785-336-2101.
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My sincere condolences to the entire Rilinger Family. My heart and prayers go out to your family as you go through this difficult time.
Thank you so much Ann
To Nancy, Jamie and all the family – you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I remember Larry fondly when I stayed with Jamie.
Thank you Alice. I have many fond memories of those times as well.
To Nancy, Jamie and the entire family- I am so sorry to hear of Larry’s passing. Know that I am keeping you in my prayers during this difficult time. I remember bringing my son out to the dairy farm when he was around 6 or 7 years old. Larry patiently showed him all around the barn and even how to milk a cow! That was such a big deal for a “city” boy : ) Love and hugs to all, Juli
Aww Juli I remember that so well! That was definitely a new adventure for Gage! Thank you for your kind words and fun memory. It is so good to remember how full and active and fun Dad’s entire life was until he got really sick towards the end. He was always so strong and healthy and busy!
Jamie & all of the beautiful & strong Rilinger family … we are so sorry for your loss and have been praying for peace in your hearts as your think on all of the memories! Big hugs and so much love from our whole big family to yours!! ❤️ Tim Annette Maddie Connor Lucy Jack Lydia Emma…Wolf & Mary Lou, Monica, Melinda, Kevin, Steve & Kendra❤️
I have memories of Larry getting on bus with us younger kids. when I was 15 I went to pick up Rose for a ladies club meeting at my Moms .Very gracious lady and the whole family. God bless and provide comfort.We attended Corning Rural High,even tho I was much younger,I remember Larry.
Jamie and family, I always enjoyed visiting with your dad when he came to visit you guys! What a beautiful family you all have. Sending our love, thoughts and prayers!