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Vivina Strathman

Seneca, Kansas

01/07/1924 - 02/03/2021

Vivina Strathman ,97, of Seneca, went to her eternal home February 3, 2021 at Country Place Senior Living. She was born January 7, 1924, on a farm southeast of Baileyville, Kansas, the daughter of Francis and Rose Olberding Holthaus. She attended the Catholic School in Baileyville for eight years, then her first year of High School in St. Benedict. She was a previous member of St. Michael’s Church in Axtell, where she was an Eucharistic Minister for a number of years, a Guild Officer, and a volunteer at Life Care Home in Seneca, leading the Rosary and the Stations of the Cross. She is currently a member of Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Seneca.

On January 7, 1941, she married Sylvester Strathman at Sacred Heart Church, Baileyville. After their marriage they lived for almost a year south of Baileyville, then moved to a farm northwest of Baileyville until 1946 when their house and all their contents were destroyed by fire. They then moved to a farm west of Axtell, where they lived for 57 years. Sylvester and Vivina celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary and he passed away on January 6, 1996, the day before their 55th anniversary.

In memory of her husband, she and one of her granddaughters started the idea of the Community Garden (as it was first called) on the corner of Main Street in Axtell.

Vivina and her husband joined a Square Dance Club in 1981 and they also belonged to a bowling team for a few years. She enjoyed helping her husband on the farm and doing work in her garden and in her many flower beds. She loved nature and all its beauty and was always sharing seeds and plants from her large garden with her many friends and neighbors even as far as Topeka, Kansas City and New Jersey. Music was also enjoyed, “Gospel”, “Country and Western” and dancing to Polka. When the grandkids came during summer vacation to stay with Grandpa and Grandma or when they came for a visit, you never got to leave without Grandma’s special treat of an ice cream cone or maybe some fresh flowers also. Her husband and family and friends were most precious to her and she was very devoted to the Blessed Virgin Mary, and the Holy Spirit was her guide.

She and her family are lifetime members of the Association of the Miraculous Medal, they received the Pope’s Apostolic Blessing, and for 25 years or more supported the Benedictine Mission House in Schuyler, Nebraska. She and her husband, Sylvester, were always present at their grandchildren’s special occasions, and she continued to celebrate these whenever possible.

Sylvester and Vivina were parents of 10 children. She was preceded in death by her husband, Sylvester, in 1996, a stillborn daughter, Jeralyn, in 1965 and a son, Dale, in 2018, her parents, Francis and Rose Holthaus and all of her siblings, brothers, George, Edwin and Leo and sisters Sister Sharon Holthaus, and Rita Strathman. She is survived by four sons, Don (Mary Doris); Jim (Jane); Ken (Tina), all of Seneca; Dave (Marian) of Axtell; four daughters, Sharon Schmelzle (Larry) of Oneida; Marilee Deters (Virgil) of Baileyville; Jeanita Lapa (Stan) of New York; and Mary Jane Deters (Donald) of Axtell; and a daughter-in-law, Verna of Topeka. Also 53 grandchildren, 160 Great-grandchildren and 43 Great-Great-Grandchildren.

Rosaries will be at 2 PM, on Sunday, February 7, 2021 at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca. Mass of Christian Burial will be Monday, February 8th  at 11 AM with a rosary preceding the Mass at 10:30 AM at St. Michael’s Church, Axtell, KS.

Memorials will be designated to St. Michael’s Parish in Axtell, KS.       Masks are recommended.

Rosaries will be at 2 PM, on Sunday, February 7, 2021 at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca. Mass of Christian Burial will be Monday, February 8th  at 11 AM with a rosary preceding the Mass at 10:30 AM at St. Michael’s Church, Axtell, KS.

Rosaries will be at 2 PM, on Sunday, February 7, 2021 at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca. Mass of Christian Burial will be Monday, February 8th  at 11 AM with a rosary preceding the Mass at 10:30 AM at St. Michael’s Church, Axtell, KS.

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7 Comments

  1. Gary and Mary Haug on February 4, 2021 at 4:30 pm

    To the Strathman family, please accept condolences on the loss of Vivina. She will always be remembered by me for her big welcoming smile! She had a way of putting people at ease right away. She and Ves raised a fine family—what a great testament to a life well-lived!

  2. Bernice Nordhus on February 4, 2021 at 9:25 pm

    Vivina was a special friend. May she rest in peace. Her whole life was guided by the Holy Spirit. My sympathy to the Strathman family.

  3. Steve & Julie Rottinghaus on February 5, 2021 at 12:15 am

    Sorry to hear of her passing. We were lucky to be Vivina’s neighbors for a few years. She was a very kind & caring person & really knew her flowers. She will be greatly missed!

  4. Margaret Rethman on February 5, 2021 at 6:32 am

    Vivina was always happy and her smile was contagious. You could never forget her as I was a neighbor to her for awhile and God bless her with all the works of mercy she did.

  5. Karen & David Brown on February 6, 2021 at 8:12 am

    Our sympathies to the Strathman family.

  6. Janet Heiman on February 6, 2021 at 12:48 pm

    Vivina was a very kind, happy lady and always thought of others. It was a pleasure to visit with her when I saw her at Country Place. Sympathy to all the family.

  7. Elaine Holthaus O'Connor on February 7, 2021 at 3:54 pm

    My sympathy to all the Strathman family. Take comfort in knowing Vivina lived a long, blessed life and was an inspiration to so many of us. Her smile and joy in life were contagious. I have fond memories of staying with your family during the summer in the 50’s, the evening games outside till dark, watching you all play cards around the kitchen table. I clearly recall Vivina washing a tubful of cucumbers outside in order to can pickles on a hot summer day. Peace to you all.

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